Where Are You? A Reflection for the High Holy Days
As we approach the High Holy Days, we are called to pause and reflect on “where we are” physically, emotionally, and spiritually. The journey towards Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur isn’t merely about attending services, but about engaging in personal transformation. The success of these sacred days largely depends on our willingness to look inward and take stock of our relationships—with others, with ourselves, and with God.
To prepare for the new year, consider the following: What if, over the next few weeks, you engaged in a conversation with God? Not necessarily the God you’ve imagined, but an all-knowing, unconditionally loving force that only wants good for you. Where would that dialogue lead? How would it help you reflect on the past year and prepare you for the year ahead?
This time of year gives us an opportunity to ask ourselves hard questions. We grow through our relationships—with people, places, and things—and through our interactions with the divine. As you step into this spiritual reflection, consider how much you’ve grown in the past year and what God would want you to take forward. The personal work you do now will lead you to greater clarity and purpose in the new year.
Reflection Questions:
Where are you compared to last year? How have you grown or changed?
Who are the people who currently surround you, and what roles do they play in your life? Are these relationships ones that God would have chosen for you?
What has been your relationship with Judaism over the past year? What is one area of Jewish learning or practice that you want to explore further?
Action Items:
Set aside 15 minutes each day for self-reflection. Use this time to think about where you are in your spiritual, emotional, and physical life.
Write a letter to yourself from last year, and another to your future self one year from now. What do you hope to carry forward, and what do you need to let go of?
Engage in a meaningful conversation with a loved one about the past year. Share your reflections and listen to theirs as part of your spiritual preparation.
